Forever with Your Twin Flame

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My twin flame left a message beside my pillow this morning before he went to work.

I want to be with you until the sun falls from the sky, until the rivers all run dry, in other words until I die, the note read.

He also knows I used to love reading Dr Seuss' books about bizarre, far-off worlds when I was in primary school, and so will sometimes leave me quotes around the house from his books. Anything with a forever theme. He does little things like that, because he's my twin flame.

Am I just very lucky to have a hopeless romantic as my twin flame? You'd think so, but in fact, in his previous relationships - so I've been told - my twin flame was the least romantic guy you were ever likely to meet. And trust me when I say, I'm no man tamer. So, what happened?

Nothing. He says he just woke up to the fact that he'd finally found what he was looking for - had been surprised to realise he'd even been looking at all. A simple connection with the eyes was all it took, and our story with forever began.

Of course I say simple, but love never really is. It may start with a simple look, and I could write the greatest love story and convince every reader I knew what I was talking about, but the truth is, when it comes to love, no one knows what the future holds. But love with your twin flame is forever.

In my article headlined "Five Steps to Your Twin Flame", I wrote that just because a relationship has ended, it doesn't mean he or she isn't your twin flame. It could be that because of unresolved issues in previous relationships, we may be suspicious of our instincts when they tell us that this time, this is it.

And so unaware that we have our twin flame (indeed some don't even know that there is a term for what they're feeling) we put out a love which has the fuel to burn forever. But love for your twin flame never really dies. The embers stay in your heart to smoulder for the rest of your lifetime.

If there's that one guy or gal in your past that, despite all the people who've come and gone since, you just can't forget, then there's a big chance he or she is your twin flame. But like Dr Seuss' classic tale "The Lorax" - a greedy character who devastates the environment by cutting all the Truffula trees and comes to regret his actions - you only really know the worth of something once you've lost it. And if you still get the sweats about a certain someone, it could be you've got what I call, the "forever fever".

So, how can you tell if you've split up from your twin flame? What are some of the symptoms of this forever fever? Ask yourself these three questions:

Things you realise when you lose someone

1. Do you get mad at yourself for not saying the things to him/her you could've said a million times?
2. Do you now realise you took for granted the days spent doing nothing, when you could've spent it with him/her?
3. Do you get mad at yourself for not having the courage to have said the things you want to say now that he/she is gone?

If you answered yes to all three questions, then the probability has just shot up that the person gone is your twin flame. Look at the questions again. They have something else in common. They are all questions related with grief.

Anyone can be taken at any time in our lives, and sometimes losing our twin flame is not in our hands, but in the hands of fate. However, forever fever is grief not of something that has died, but grief over something that is lost and can never die.

When something is over, it is over. It can take time, but we know when it is over. We can be together with someone, and know it is over, or we can be apart from our twin flame, and know that we will always love them. In some way, I think Madonna's twin flame was Sean Penn, when she called him "the love of her life" in her 1991 "In Bed With" documentary. She intimated that she had never loved anyone like she had loved the bad boy actor, it was just the relationship that wasn't fated to be forever because of their circumstances.

Watch that documentary and look at Madonna's face closely when she confesses her love for Penn - that's forever fever.

That's why I count my blessings every day, and when I write my stories about twin flames, I always try to spin a story that involves finding true love, to remind me how blessed I truly am.

And did I respond back to my twin flame's pillow talk? You bet I did. I sent a text to his smartphone.

Don't die. You're no Lorax, You're the boy who saved my devastated world, I wrote back.

Yours in love,

True Twin Flame Stories-1

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Some will have heard the saying that love is born with a smile, grows with a kiss, and dies with a tear - but for twin flames love is born in the eyes, grows in the heart, and never dies.

You'll love your twin flame irrelevant of whether their chromosomes have combined beautifully, or they happen to be a hunchback. You'll love them not only for what they are, but what you are when you're with them. You'll love them just because you do, and because no other reason is needed for loving your twin flame.

Often in a love relationship, we enter a person's life trying to make them love us, but a twin flame let's you feel that you're worth so much loving, that no response is even necessary - but you respond instinctively because you feel the same way. It's a strong electrical current that joins even the most opposite poles together.

My best friend and her twin flame are the perfect example of opposites attracting, and on paper you couldn't make work, what works between them so beautifully in real life. When they are together, everyone turns to look at them - their combined aura has a strong pull, and many twin flames will have shared similar experiences.

They were having a conversation the other day, and he told her randomly that he loved her.

My friend asked, "But how do you know it's true love?"

"Because I feel the same way even when you're being an idiot," he replied.

And that's what twin flames do - they love one another even when they least deserve it, because that's when they really need it.

Read other true stories: -2 -3 -4 -5 -6 -7

Yours in love,

What Do You Love?

...Or should that only be whom do you love?

We use the word "love" at lot in daily speak. We often say we love this, that or the other, and some complain that we use it so much as to abuse it out of its true meaning.

But in my opinion, true love is one of those exceptions that repeated often becomes neither meaningless nor clichéd. Things that govern our lives will never go out of fashion, and love is a hot little number.

I use the word love a lot (bet you couldn't guess that from my blog!). I love reading out loud. I love Scandinavian cuisine. Like a large percentage of the global population, I love my raggedy pair of strutted jeans that feel so comfortable. And again like a major slice of the world, I love the island of freedom the internet has become, and the way it has helped me embody the spirit of passionate individual expression, to make it a part of my daily life.

And there's the key word: passion. We use the word love when we feel passionate about something. Is it so wrong to attach it to objects? Or should we only use it when we talk about our feelings for people?

I feel passionate about my writing, about my food, about my favourite pair of jeans that has travelled with me across the globe. But that doesn't mean I feel any less passionate about my twin flame. And I think we need more passion in the world for the right kind of things.

We need a passion for peace which will stop us from starting new wars. We need a passion for all living things, to help us protect animals endangered to the point of extinction. We need a passion for the truth so we can stamp out the culture of corruption in politics and the media.

If we didn't have a passion for these things, why would we want to even attempt them?

Ultimately, it is not loving things that is the core problem; it is loving the wrong things above living things. And being passionate about the good things the world has to offer shows a healthy respect for the gift of life given to us, by appreciating the best it has to give.

Only then can we create a universe where love is the matter that dominates, opposed to the shadowy antimatter of hate. And it's a doable dream. We can essentially be free of tyranny. The whole point is that in all our minds a free world exists, where we can cast away the chains of war, capitalism, communism, conformism, and all ideologies, and become one with our own divine essence of love.

Because the world of love is never black or white, or shades of grey, but a multitude of colours, where everything is written with a hope and a passion that struggles to the last.

Yours in love,

Treat Yourself with Love-2

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First Be Your Own Gardener

Undeniably, the first major change in our lifestyle should be to listen more to what our bodies are telling us.

Challenging it may be, but a big part of being healthy is about listening to your body. This is something we were never taught to do. We generally ignore it or medicate it in some way. But we need to treat ourselves with some love and attention.

Kick-starting a serious look at our terrain will mean to learn more and more about what our body is telling us. Think of it as your guide and pay attention to every creak, sore, ache, swelling, digestive issue and more. All if it is telling you to slow down and pay attention to what is going on in your life.

You and I ignore our bodies at our peril. Some of us take more care of our gardens than we do of our bodies, but our bodies need constant attention in line with the seasons. So, too, does the terrain that influences our bodies - our lifestyle and immediate environment. We immunise our bodies against disease by making sure our lifestyle and our close environment is a healthy as possible.

One English surgeon Stephen Paget understood this idea of a connection between our bodies and the earth well. In the Lancet in 1889 he published an article describing his seed and soil hypothesis, which is still considered authoritative 120 years later.

"When a plant goes to seed, its seeds are carried in all directions. But they can only live and grow if they fall on congenial soil."

Utilising gardening as an analogy is ideal - it's good for the soul, in more ways than one. It can be very therapeutic, and when carried out with love, brings about the best blooms of spring.

Rarely do we give our bodies the requisite love, however. If we did, it would make it less congenial - less prone - to disease.

Self-love can be a big health booster. And not only sharing that love with ourselves, but with our family, friends - and twin flame - doubles the benefits. But that means taking time out from our hectic schedules to just be in the moment with those we really love. You'll discover it's a love-boost to the immune system.

Everyone needs some time out to recharge their batteries. Find out what makes you relax the most, and make sure you include this in your weekly timetable.

Label it as a daily treat and add some spirituality to it by making it a ritual - so until the next post in this mini-series on health, go on and treat yourself with love today!

For yours in love,