The Love You Desire

...and how to get it.

“Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.”
— Ralph Waldo Emerson

What exactly is the difference between wishing for something and actually making it happen? The answer is simple: belief.

When you believe that something is possible, you'll take action to make it happen. You'll push forward through obstacles because you know you can - and that means that anything you believe can happen. The secret, is to tear away the limiting barriers your mind puts up against the things that you truly want.

Then, with all your heart you must add strong belief to the mix. The same way you believe the sun will rise tomorrow, you must believe in the things that you truly want. That's the first, and most crucial step in all great manifestation.

Ballet dancer Sergei Polunin, the youngest dancer ever to be made a principal with the Royal Ballet, whose skill had earned him comparisons with Nureyev and Baryshnikov, quit his profession, because he no longer believed in what he was doing.

Losing our passion is the worst thing that can happen to us. Sometimes we hate our lives, we feel trapped, or we get lonely, and when we find someone in a similar situation, we feel maybe it's better to be trapped together. It makes us feel safe, although it's a false sense of security.

Loneliness, or rather the fear of it, casts its own spell. Its magic can sometimes make us fall in love with someone, because the alternative of living with ourselves is too frightening to contemplate. But sometimes being lonely is more than being miles apart from someone, and being happy is more than being together with someone. It doesn't mean couples in these situations are unable to find happiness with each other, but they're missing out on a different kind of magic.

One where it doesn't matter how many thousand of miles apart you are from that certain someone, you're still under their spell, and even when you're alone, you're never lonely. You're not with him or her out of fear, but out of no other reason than you love them.

That's the type of love worth believing in, getting passionate about - it's a love worth getting up for in the morning.

And how can you bring this type of love into your life? Simply by believing in it.

Yours in love,